There was a time in my life where I honestly believed that my future was already planned out and that it would be handed to me on a silver plate; me just casually waiting for it. However, the perspective of choosing a path for my life came across earlier than I thought; hitting me like a sarcastic reminder that not only do I have to choose my destiny, so to speak, by figuring out who I am and what type of person I want to be, but also within a really narrow period of time. Plus, my decision was always torn between what I truly wanted to do and jobs which “sounded right” a.k.a what will impress your friends and make you the one who succeeded at family gatherings. Moreover, being around all these kids who seemed to have always known what person they would become in the future stressed me out even more. A couple of weeks ago, I came across this quote by Nathan Scott from the American TV show One Tree Hill saying: “It’s the oldest story in the world. One day, you’re seventeen and planning for someday. And then, quietly, and without you ever really noticing, someday is today. And then someday is yesterday. And this is your life.” Quite frightening, isn’t it? This quote really did change my perspective on the future.
The pressure we, as teenagers, have on our shoulders as the end of graduation is unmeasurably high and it makes us forget to actually live in the moment. I realized that it’s ok to be lost and indecisive about my future. The reason why I was put in this world will eventually come along the ride that is life and as naturally as the blooming of flowers in spring.
Trying to understand what the purpose of your life is actually make you forget what life is really about: an adventure. Choosing a path is not about ensuring you are on the “right” track but experiencing as much as possible in order to make your life purposeful and meaningful. There will sure be ups and downs but eventually, it will all be worth it. Live. That is the key. Live while you can. Tomorrow is a new day and a new opportunity to experience everything life has to offer. I want to wake up every day feeling excited for what’s ahead and not horrified about whether or not I am where I am supposed to be. I don’t want to get at the end of my life wondering what my life would have been if I had followed my heart and my convictions or if I had taken my life into my own hands instead of letting it come to me. What about you?
Have the courage to overcome these fears and follow the rhythm of the river, do not be afraid to try and fall, do not be afraid to come back up and fall again for it is what life is mainly about. At the end of the day, I know I won’t regret any of my choices because they will make my life so much more personal and valuable to me. Wouldn’t it be awesome to have tones of great memories and adventures to share with your children and grand-children? Well this not-so-dreamy reality was actually closer than I thought, waiting for me just around the corner.